The Easy Way to Be More Likable at Work - The Muse

The Easy Way to Be More Likable at Work - The MuseThe Easy Way to Be More Likable at Work We all want to be well liked- especially by our co-workers. Hey, you spend more time with these people than you do with your friends and your family, so it only makes sense that youd rather not be the Regina George of your office.Like me, youve probably read your fair share of tips and advice on how to be more likable at work. But, if youre really like me, you probably went on to implement absolutely none of it. Guilty as charged? Yeah, thats what I thought. But, I have news for you Being more likable isnt really all that difficult. It doesnt need to be this major, complex undertaking. In fact, theres one thing you can do that will instantly make you gain favor with absolutely everybody on your team.Whats this magical answer? Its simple Be a better team player.Lets face it- pretty much everybody loves and respects the person whos willing to lend a helping hand or take one for the team every now and then. So, if youre eager to have your co-workers shower you in compliments and adoration, you need to step up to the plate and prove that youre not always just looking out for number one.How do pull this off and prove that you subscribe to that age-old clich of, Theres no I in team? Here are a few simple tips you can implement immediately- and fairly easily.1. Do the Thing Nobody Else Wants to DoHave you ever heard a fellow employee let out a complaint that goes something like, How dare Jason clean out the breakroom microwave I was planning on complaining about the exploded ravioli that was in there for another solid three weeks? No? I didnt think so.Most of us want to skip out on the dirty work and those tasks that make us cringe (or worse, gag), and well pretty much do anything and everything in our power in reservierung to do so.But, if you can position yourself as the team member wholl roll up your sleeves and actually unjam the printer- rather than repeatedly walking past t hat obnoxious blinking light while not-so-convincingly pretending you dont see it? Well, its pretty much impossible for anybody to dislike you. 2. Dont Just ListenSure, sometimes its nice to have somebody there to listen to you vent about your problems. But, do you know what else is great? Somebody whos willing to step up and help you fix them.The next time a co-worker is ranting to you about how swamped she is or how she keeps getting stuck with a pesky error in Excel, go past just listening and see if you can offer any potentially helpful solutions.Are you familiar enough with her work that you could volunteer to take something off her plate for the time being? Are you an Excel whiz who could take a quick look at that spreadsheet and get rid of that obnoxious problem?Yes, even being available to commiserate or sympathize with that person is a nice and friendly gesture. But, if you can take things a step further and actually spring into action to make your colleagues life a little easier, youll quickly foster a reputation as the nicest one in your office. 3. Do Something Nice- Just BecauseWhens the last time you did something nice for your colleagues, just because you felt like it? Are you drawing a major blank? Dont worry- you arent alone. Just like in any other relationship, it becomes easy to forget to do those little things that show your appreciation for your co-workers. So, why not do something today?Pick up some pastries or a few extra coffees on your way into the office in the morning. Offer a genuine compliment, like on a project that a colleague recently knocked out of the park. Or, empty your team members trash while youre taking your own out. These are all super minor things that require almost no effort on your part. But, they can make a huge difference in the way your co-workers perceive you. And, bonus, its bound to make you feel good too You probably dont strut into the office each and every morning thinking, Lets see how many of my teammates I can piss off today At least, I certainly hope you dont.For the most part, we all want to be liked in the office. And, fortunately, its not that hard to foster a positive reputation and strengthen the bonds you share with your colleagues. Believe it or not, all you really need is to be an awesome team player.Implement these three easy tips to do just that, and youre sure to become the most likable person in your office.